Deeper conversations.
Real connection.
Real chat | Like-minded people | New connections
We host deep yet casual conversations for people craving meaningful chat, connection, and reflection.
A conversation club about life.
Tired of small talk?
Welcome to ComeToThinkOfIt—
a new kind of conversation club for people who want more depth and connection in their life. We bring conscious people together to explore life's most meaningful questions, beyond surface level chit-chat.
It’s like stepping into a self-development podcast where you’re not just listening, but you’re in the room and a part of the conversation — listening, sharing, connecting. Leave with new perspectives that move you forward. It’s real people showing up, sharing stories, and making sense of life — together.
Let’s dig beyond the surface.
ComeToThinkOfIt...
this might be exactly what you've been looking for.
Connect and socialise with open-minded people.
Explore life’s big questions in a relaxed setting (no preaching and not too heavy).
Leave feeling heard, inspired, and energized with new perspectives.
Our Mission
To create spaces where people grow together, through each other. Where we reflect out loud, ask better questions, and come away with a deeper understanding of who we are, and how we want to live. Because better questions lead to better lives. And those answers? We find them together.
What to expect?
What’s in a Club Conversation?
Come as you are. We talk about the stuff that actually matters — the things we all feel, but rarely get to unpack out loud.
No filters. No lectures. Just honest, thoughtful conversation about being human.
Join 6–12 like-minded people at a cozy venue. We’ll dig into some shares and topics that the community has upvoted.
Flow:
Welcome & Warm-up — settle in, meet your group (20 mins)
Deep Dive — explore the central theme in small-group convo (50 mins)
Reflections — space to land, share takeaways, or just breathe it all in (20mins)
Optional… stick around after for more chat, connection, or just chill time
Vibes:
There’s no judgment here, just honesty and respect with a few ground rules
Everyone’s voice, take, and wisdom matters; be ready to listen and share — there’s no single “expert” here.
Guided by a facilitator, with space for free-flow
Healthy chat accompanied by healthy snacks, drinks, and a playlist to match the mood
What You’ll Experience
1. Easy Connection
The best learnings in life happen together. Get to know others who enjoy thinking deeper — just like you.
2. Deeper Conversation
A mix of life stories, unscripted opinions, and newfound wisdom — we talk about what really matters.
3. A Workout for Your Inner World
Call it reflection, call it “refs” (we’re coining this!), either way, you’ll leave with your mind stretched and perspective expanded — think of it as a gym session for your self-awareness.
Let’s Talk About the Real Stuff…
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Self...
Figuring ourselves out. Who am I, really? What do I want? Why do I keep doing that thing? Get curious about your inner world.
- Finding clarity and a sense of purpose
- What makes you you — your personality, quirks, and values
- Beliefs & patterns that shape your life
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Relationships...
How We Connect. Relationships can lift us up or wear us down — usually a bit of both.
Romance — the joy, the heartbreak, the growthFamily — setting boundaries, breaking cycles, finding peace
Friendship — staying close, growing apart, showing up
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Environment...
The Life You're Living In. The world around us affects how we feel — more than we admit.
Home life — whether it’s calm, chaotic, or something in between
Work — what you do, why you do it, and how it’s working for you
Life shifts — transitions, chaos, fresh starts, and figuring it out as you go
What You’ll Walk Away With…
Maybe we’ve found you if you have been after:
….a chill, safe space to think aloud and unpack what’s going on in your head and your world.
…leave feeling better about yourself and more grounded in where you’re at in your life right now.
…through listening and sharing, take newfound frames and perspectives to get you through challenges and situations.
….find your new tribe, a place to make new friends. People that get you.
and your story and wisdom might be exactly what someone else needs to shift their world to a better place.
Become a Member — Step Into Something Bigger
Everyone and anyone is welcome!
Join single club events for £15 per session or become a member and get more:
💬 Private WhatsApp Community
Stay connected between sessions with like-minded people.
📅 Shape the Club
Vote on upcoming topics, themes, and socials — your voice helps guide what we do.
🎟️ Member-Only Event Price: £10
Save every time you attend. Show up often, and it pays for itself.
⏳ Early Access to Events
Get first dibs on limited spots before the general public.
📓 Your Own “ComeToThinkOfIt…” Journal
A beautiful guided notebook to capture insights, reflections, and ah-ha moments — free with your membership, ready to grab at your first event.
🌱 You're Fueling Something Meaningful
Your membership helps grow the club, fund accessible spaces, and bring meaningful conversation to more people.
Ready to go deeper…
Come to think of it…
Membership Subscription
Monthly £5.99
Become a member today and be part of something real.
Got questions?
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ComeToThinkOfIt is for anyone and everyone. All humans 18yo + welcome. no experience, credentials, or overthinking required. Just come as you are, with an honest and open spirit.
Can I bring a friend? Deep chats are even better when shared. Bring someone along — and if they join as a member, we offer referral perks too. Just drop us a note at hello@cometothinkofit.club. -
Great question.
Your contribution helps cover venue hire, marketing, platform costs, and the behind-the-scenes work that keeps the club running and growing.
Every penny goes back into creating meaningful spaces and experiences for the community. -
Absolutely. Everyone attending has pre-registered, and we hold clear ground rules for kindness, respect, and confidentiality. You’ll be welcomed as you are — and held in a space that honours who you are.
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Only if you want to.
You’re welcome to just listen, reflect, and take it all in. There’s no pressure to perform or be profound — this is a space for being real, not perfect. -
No stress.
Just send us an email at hello@cometothinkofit.club and we’ll process your cancellation with one month’s notice. -
We’d love to hear from you.
Reach out any time at hello@cometothinkofit.club and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can. -
We meet in warm, welcoming venues — often cafés, co-working spaces, or creative studios. Always somewhere that feels cozy, calm, and conversation-ready. You'll receive full details after you book.
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We’d love that.
If you’re keen to help run events, co-facilitate, or support behind the scenes, reach out. This club is powered by community — and grows through shared energy.
Member
“"I didn’t expect to feel this connected with strangers. Cometothinkofit feels like my tribe."
– Will
Event attendee